As one of our most popular sex toys for men, prostate stimulators can quench your craving for anal pleasure. If you haven’t ever tried one, or are new to the booty-bangin’ game, you probably have a lot of questions. No worries! Taboo Video is here to answer them all!

What Is the Prostate, Anyway?

It’s a male reproductive organ a little bigger than a walnut. The prostate creates prostatic fluid, an alkaline fluid that helps neutralize the natural acidity of the vagina, which helps sperm live longer and move faster. Muscles in the prostate help propel semen during ejaculation. And of course, many men consider it their G-spot (or P-spot, more accurately) and find it feels amazing when it’s massaged.

Where Is My Prostate?

The prostate is located between the bladder and the rectum. To find yours, first make sure your hands are clean and fingernails are smooth. Lube up your finger and lie on your back with your legs up. Placing a pillow under your butt may make it easier to reach. Using the pad of your finger—not your fingertip—gently press on your anus, breathe out, and push with your sphincter. This will help guide your finger inside. About two inches deep, push your finger upwards, towards your belly button. Feel that little bump? That’s your prostate! Go on and give it a rub to see if you like it. Make friends with it.

Which Prostate Stimulator Is Right for Me?

Taboo carries an assortment of prostate stimulators to suit all kinds of appetites and bodies. The Classix Prostate Stimulator is perfect for beginners. It’s manual—as in no vibration—and features a curved design to hit just the right spot. The Pandora P & G-Spot Stimulator is a step up from Classix as it offers seven orgasm-inducing vibration settings. Both have flared handles so you’re never at risk of losing it inside you and making an embarrassing trip to the doctor.

How Do I Use a Prostate Stimulator?

The first step is to prepare. Use the bathroom and wash up before you get started. Some people prefer to do a rectal douche as well. Wash your prostate stimulator before (and after) each use. Use lube (we like Moist Anal Lube), and plenty of it. Keep it slick for maximum comfort. Your body will be more receptive if you’re aroused, so relax and get into the mood. Get into a comfortable position and then slowly and gently insert the toy into your butt. If at any time you feel pain or discomfort, STOP. The feeling can be intense, but it should not hurt. Once you’ve inserted the toy to a comfortable depth, experiment with moving it around. Try rotating it or sliding the stimulator in and out at an even pace. If you’ve chosen a toy with vibration, test out the speed settings to find your fave. While some men can achieve orgasm through prostate stimulation alone, many prefer to use a toy masturbator at the same time for powerfully extreme pleasure.

After your anal adventure, make sure to clean your toys thoroughly and pat yourself on the back for a job well done.